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What’s All the Hubbub About Socially Engaged Buddhism, Bub?
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Since the Zen Peacemakers held the Western Socially Engaged Buddhism Symposium in August there have been many posts out there on Buddhist blogs, many railing against the idea of “Engaged” Buddhism. This caught my attention and inspired me to jump on the bandwagon and write my own post – mostly in an attempt to clarify what I think about the issue, as my own thoughts about it are mixed.
When I first heard the term “Engaged Buddhism,” I thought it was a reaction to the misconception that some people seem to have that non-attachment means detachment or disengagement. In his 2003 article, “Why I Ditched Buddhism,” John Horgan states:
But what troubles me most about Buddhism is its implication that detachment from ordinary life is the surest route to salvation. Buddha’s first step toward enlightenment was his abandonment of his wife and child, and Buddhism (like Catholicism) still exalts male monasticism as the epitome of spirituality. It seems legitimate to ask whether a path that turns away from aspects of life as essential as sexuality and parenthood is truly spiritual. From this perspective, the very concept of enlightenment begins to look anti-spiritual: It suggests that life is a problem that can be solved, a cul-de-sac that can be, and should be, escaped 1.
Ideas like the above are, unfortunately, common. Non-attachment sounds a lot like detachment, though one is being able to let go and accept change; the other is being like an emotionless Vulcan.
The term, “Engaged Buddhism,” was originally coined by Thich Nhat Hanh during the 1960s in response to the suffering caused by the war in Vietnam. As he put it in a Shambhala Sun article, “When bombs begin to fall on people, you cannot stay in the meditation hall all the time 2 .” It was a term that acknowledged that Dharma practice meant taking action to reduce the suffering in the world; in fact the dukkha, “in here,” and the dukkha, “out there,” are the same.
According to the Buddhist Peace Fellowship website:
Socially engaged Buddhism is a dharma practice that flows from the understanding of the complete yet complicated interdependence of all life. It is the practice of the bodhisattva vow to save all beings. It is to know that the liberations of ourselves and the liberation of others are inseparable. It is to transform ourselves as we transform all our relationships and our larger society. It is work at times from the inside out and at times from the outside in, depending on the needs and conditions. It is to see the world through the eye of the Dharma and to respond emphatically and actively with compassion.
—-Donald Rothberg and Hozan Alan Senauke
Turning Wheel/Summer-Fall – 2008 3
Since Thich Nhat Hanh formed the Order of Interbeing, a host of other Engaged Buddhist organizations formed; among these are the Buddhist Peace Fellowship, founded in 1978 by Nelson Foster and Ann and Robert Aitken, Zen Peacemakers founded in 1980 by Bernie Glassman, and The International Network of Engaged Buddhists, founded in 1989.
The above quote about socially engaged Buddhism above sounds a lot like…regular Buddhism? What is the difference between Engaged Buddhism and just regular Buddhism? According to Thich Nhat Hanh, there is no difference: “Engaged Buddhism is just Buddhism.” There is no Buddhism that is NOT engaged. And this is where some of the criticism of Engaged Buddhism as a movement starts. There seems to be a fear that Engaged Buddhism, as a movement, will attempt to circumscribe the opinions that we, as Buddhists, should have about political matters,to and the way in which we should be engaged with the world. That there will be a delineation between “regular,” and “engaged” Buddhists (something like, “You aren’t engaged in this Approved Engaged Buddhist® social cause, so you are not an “Engaged” Buddhist and therefore your practice sucks.”).
John at Point of Contact states:
So overall, I think that the “Engaged” Buddhism movement is similar to SGI or any other religious group that starts mixing spirituality/religion with politics in an organizational context. It is a dangerous recipe that leads to groupthink. I can’t think of one thing more dangerous or detrimental to practice than groupthink 4.
At a small sangha I attended, someone told me about a man who was new to the sangha, and wanted to criticize the group for not being socially active enough, for working just for themselves, instead of involving themselves with society. There were several problems with this (other than someone just criticizing a group he just stepped into). Several members did work privately, on their own, for causes that moved them. No need to do it as a Buddhist or as a sangha . The other problem is that we cannot see another’s experience, and we cannot always see how someone else is being engaged through their practice. It is not up to us to judge another person’s practice – and there can be a tendency to do just this when it comes to social issues.
In Zen, we practice present-moment awareness, and there seems to be the notion that if we can practice this awareness, we will simply know what will be the most appropriate, helpful action when situations present themselves to us (I don’t say, “problems,” because many situations we turn into problems with our thoughts). When we see somebody come in front of us who is suffering, we will be moved to be Bodhisattvas and help to alleviate their suffering, to the best of our ability. But the world is much different now than it was before the age of the radio, the television, the Internet. We are confronted with suffering not in our immediate vicinity. We are confronted with suffering — the actual suffering of suffering variety of dukkha, not just the commonplace garden variety of low grade, “I can’t have what I want,” kind of dukkha that us middle class westerners seem prone to. It can be very frustrating to see all this suffering in front of us, and feel impotent to do much about it. To address this, involvement in organizations can be empowering – it takes more than individuals acting alone to confront such issues.
But does an organization acting under the “banner” of Buddhism promote an increased appreciation and awareness of Buddhism in the general community, or does it, as Bernie Glassman says he was accused of doing 5, “stain the dharma”?
Again, John at Point of Contact states, about this:
The answer to his question, however, is simple: Don’t practice social engagement as a Buddhist. Don’t practice charity as a Buddhist. Don’t show compassion as a Buddhist. These are the things that every personal practice should contain without con[s]training them with religious identity. When you chose to show charity, compassion or social engagement as a part of your personal practice you can do so without waving a religious banner. Do it for the benefit for others. Period. End of sentence. No strings attached. No politics or banners. Slogans or comments. No conversions or evangelizing 6.
Overall, I’d agree with this. Compassionate action should be an outgrowth of practice. It would be strange to do something for someone else on my own and then say, I’m helping you because I’m Buddhist, rather than just because I was moved to do it out of need, compassion, concern. It would be like saying, well, “it’s the Christian thing to do.” Compassion is non-denominational. No one religion has the patent on compassion or social justice. In the past, I’ve found myself having negative reactions to social projects through, for instance, our Girl Scouts group. We were to collect boxes to fill with items to send to an impoverished company through a charitable organization. Of course, in these boxes were…evangelical pamphlets. The giving was a good idea, but I had difficulty participating in this because of my reaction toward the attempt to evangelize and convert. I don’t think I would have had the same reaction if there had been a small card in there simply stating that it was through a particular religious organization. Is there anything wrong with an organization with a Buddhist perspective tackling social issues if there is no attempt to convert or evangelize? I used to attend a Unitarian Universalist church. Our Social Action Committee would do social projects, yes, in the name of the church, but with no attempt to convert 7, and I never had issue with it. In Buddhism there is no political agenda, but I think one’s beliefs/insights necessarily inform their political opinions – whether or not we stick a religious label on what we do.
However, not all Buddhists believe exactly the same things, and not all can agree on what is the best way to reduce suffering, as Kyle at the Reformed Buddhist points out on his blog, exaggerating his opinions to make a point, suggesting that the death penalty will help to alleviate the suffering of the loved ones of victims, and that a strong military is needed to use force to oust dictators who cause suffering to their people 8. But does having an organization under the auspices of “Buddhism” imply that all the people in that organization believe the same way? That all Buddhists believe the same way? That there is a certain set of attitudes/opinions/politics that are necessarily Buddhist? Or is there room within a socially active Buddhist organization to act, publicly, as Buddhists while encompassing different viewpoints within the organization and without implying that all Buddhists are necessarily of the same political ideologies?
There seems to be a risk of valuing overt social activism over the myriad small, compassionate actions, and peacemaking efforts we do every day, responding to what is really right here, right now, and right in front of us. Brad Warner talks about this in Hardcore Zen :
Some of my best friends are people who’ve made it their business to solve all the world’s ills – and God love ‘em for it. Most people think this kind of behavior is the most intensely moral thing anyone could engage in. My friends certainly do.
For years and years I labored under the impression that people like this were really, “doing something” while I was just sitting around staring at walls or contemplating my navel lint…But is what they do really what it means to be moral? When you decide that helping feed homeless transgender crack addicts to the baby whales—or whatever—is somehow more worthy than helping your mom clean the dead squirrel out of the gutter, that’s when you get in trouble. It’s that all too often our image of “worthy” causes completely obscures the stuff right under our noses – and that’s the stuff that needs our attention, right here and right now. 9
Does seeing interconnectedness necessarily manifest itself as involvement in political causes? Each small, compassionate action we take that comes from a place of seeing interconnectedness, the lack of separation between self and other, between in and out, is Engaged Buddhism. There’s a risk of glamorizing those who we see publicly performing “good works,” and those who go about their simple, mundane tasks in a engaged, but quieter way (this reminds me of the passage in the Bible where Jesus criticizes those who pray publicly vs privately). We all have our talents and our own ways that we can act in the world to accomplish the reduction of suffering – of ourselves and others (we’re important, too!). The world needs all of these; not our judgments about which form of engagement with the world is “better.”
This was kind of a rambling post, but, in summary, I think there is a place for engaged Buddhist organizations as long as they avoid claiming to represent all Buddhists and as long as they don’t claim to have a monopoly on engaged practice.
In addendum:
Maria at The Jizo Chronicles lists Ten Guiding Principles for Socially Engaged Buddhism by Diana Winston and Donald Rothberg. She concludes that yes, there is a difference between socially engaged Buddhism and, “someone with liberal politics who slaps a Buddhist sticker on to their beliefs and then heads out to a protest?” Another resource on her blog: the Mandala of Socially Engaged Buddhism
- Horgan, John. “Why I Ditched Buddhism.” Slate 12 Feb 2003: n. pag. Web. 18 Sep 2010. http://www.slate.com/id/2078486/. Don’t get me started about the rest of this article, either! ↩
- Malkin, John. “Peace Begins with You.” Shambhala Sun Jul. 2003: n. pag. Web. 18 Sep 2010. http://www.shambhalasun.com/index.php?option=content&task=view&id=1579&Itemid=0&limit=1&limitstart=0 ↩
- http://www.bpf.org/about-us/what-is-socially-engaged-buddhism ↩
- http://zendirtzendust.posterous.com/buddhist-banners ↩
- http://www.tricycle.com/blog/?p=2171 ↩
- http://zendirtzendust.posterous.com/27805053 ↩
- My husband once expressed his concerns about our small kids “being indoctrinated” when they were small and I would take them to the UU church. My husband is pretty much an atheist, and this is laughable if you know much about Unitarian Universalism ↩
- http://www.thereformedbuddhist.com/2010/09/final-thoughts-on-socially-engaged.html ↩
- Warner, Brad. Hardcore Zen: Punk Rock, Monster Movies, and the Truth about Reality. Wisdom Publications, 2003. 147. Print. Yes, another Brad Warner quote. ↩
Book Review: Sex, Sin, and Zen: A Buddhist Exploration of Sex from Celibacy to Polyamory and Everything in Between
2*With more than a few of my personal opinions about these subjects added.
Sex. Problem. No Sex. Problem.
Shunryu Suzuki, as quoted by Brad Warner in this book
OK, this review is coming in a little after most of the others…I was not one of the lucky ones who got an advance reading copy of this book. I had to go to Barnes and Noble and shell $14.95 – or whatever it was – out of my very own pocket. No ebook edition was even available yet (at least not for the Nook).
I keep reading that there are two camps when it comes to Brad Warner 1 – you either love him or hate him. I’ll disclose right off that I’m mostly in the former category. I remember reading, “Sit Down and Shut Up ” and both learning something about Dogen and laughing my head off – one of the few times I’ve laughed while reading a Buddhist book. It was refreshing to me that here was this guy who was a Zen teacher who retained his love for really awful monster movies and told bad jokes 2. It showed me that Zen didn’t necessarily mean throwing out your silliness along with your delusions. When reading his books, at times I’ve found myself a little irritated at his criticism toward things like metta practice, the term mindfulness, and his criticisms of some other Buddhist teachers. And yet, I sometimes find myself also having similar responses to these things 3. He also has a tendency at times, perhaps more in his other books than in this one, to criticize some practices outside of zazen and some of his innuendo/jokes get a little repetitive. Maybe he should stop stoking 4his desire to add these jokes wherever possible. But I find his writing style enjoyable to read, and much of his writing about the Dharma insightful.
First things first…
The cover: A fat, tattooed Buddha sits in the clouds with a guitar – he has a kind of smug expression on his face. Down below, there is Brad Warner
…and a bunch of scantily clad tattooed women. Not that there’s anything wrong with tattooed women. Hey, I have a tattoo 5! But where are the guys? Where’s something for us straight chicks 6? If there are going to be half naked women on the cover, give me some bare chested hunks with rippling muscles as well. I’m not beyond preferences
In this book, Warner deals with such wide-ranging topics as masturbation, BDSM (eventually getting to the point of making the comparis
on to power dynamics within student/teacher relationships), sexual abuse and zazen practice, abortion, women’s rights, celibacy, polyamory, sex as meditation, Buddhist attitudes toward sex vs. the western attitude of sex as sinful, prostitution, porn, dating and marriage, and an interview with porn star Nina Hartley whose parents were both Zen teachers. Amongst these disparate sexual topics, he also discusses such Buddhist teachings as no-self, right action, right livelihood 7, attachment, the Bodhisattva vow, karma, emptiness, and precepts. Along with all this are Warner’s usual pop-culture references, Gene Simmons and Star Trek among them. Whew! That’s a lot of stuff to cover, and a lot of stuff to think about for a book review.
Here’s my reaction/response to a few parts of the book:
Misuse of Sex…
I haven’t read/heard much about Buddhist attitudes toward sex, outside of the precept to not misuse sexuality. But what constitutes a misuse of sexuality? There are a few things we would all (I hope) agree constitute a misuse of sexuality. But outside of those things it’s a murky area and Buddhism largely leaves it up to the individual to decide what is “misusing sexuality.” Some of the early Buddhist rules address sexuality. In one chapter, Warner explores celibacy and some of the vinaya rules on sex, but many of these are so far out (as he recognizes) that they have little bearing on the lives of modern laypeople 8. I like the way he relates defining what would be a misuse of sex back to the Bodhisattva vows and “saving all beings…from [ourselves]:”
In terms of sexuality, this mostly means vowing not to be an asshole, vowing to respect other people, and vowing to live ethically, no matter what lifestyle we choose. This doesn’t mean that we have to lead our sex lives according to some arbitrary system that society has decided is moral. But it does mean that we have to do whatever – or whomever – we do in a way that causes as little harm as possible 9.
…and Polyamory
Even so, people define what is/could be harmful in so many different ways. I’m on the same page with Warner, in that I’m generally not concerned with what other people do as long as it’s not harming anyone else and as long as you’re not criticizing me for not being like you. Sexual acts between consenting adults should be a matter of private, personal choice, and I think that it’s outrageous that it was as late as 2003 that Lawrence v Texas would abolish all the sodomy laws in the US that hadn’t already been overturned and that we are still debating whether gay people 10should be able to marry. Be you straight, gay, bi-, polyamorous, I’m OK with that. But please don’t criticize me because I’m straight and monogamous. That’s what works best for me. When I was in my early 20’s, I was hanging around many Pagans for whom polyamory was common. I was fine with that, but sometimes felt like I was up for criticism because I didn’t choose the same. Of the few married polyamorous or “open marriage” couples I have known, the divorce rate was 100%. I know three couples does not make an accurate sample, and with the current divorce rate at 50%, the track record isn’t good for any marriage. I’m sure there are some couples that can handle polyamory 11. I have a certain admiration for people who are able to not feel threatened by their significant other(s) having sexual relationships with other people, or at least not react to their feelings of jealousy, though I do wonder how often open relationships and an “anything goes” approach…things like BDSM…lead to suffering 12. I just know I’m not there, and it’s not the thing for me. I even found myself having BIG negative reactions to a partner’s use of porn. Read on…
Porn…
My husband and I have had discussions about porn. Is it degrading to women? Is it a form of infidelity? Does it cause people to desire what they can’t have or to view their own sex lives and their partners in a more negative light ? My answer to these questions always come up as, “it depends.” It depends on how the women in the porn are treated, and the reasons the women are in the porn, their attitudes toward it. It depends on the attitudes both people in the relationship have towards porn and how secure they are with the relationship and with their own bodies 13.It depends on the person watching the porn – is it a compulsion, an addiction, an escape from reality or is the person able to separate fantasy reality and just enjoy the fantasy for what it is without making their own lives look bad in comparison?
Warner touches on this, rightly noting how mainstream media, to a much greater extent than porn, leads people to dissatisfaction with their own lives and to desire things they think will make them more fulfilled. He points out that most porn viewers probably just see it as an enjoyable fantasy and no more. The problem with this, as Warner acknowledges is that porn is a “strong stimulus” with a higher potential for obsessive/addictive behavior. The graphic below (from OnlineSchools.org, NOT from the book) attests to the popularity of porn 14:
So, is this bad? Certainly child porn is, and I definitely think it is negative for kids to be viewing online porn. I’d assert that some types of porn are degrading to women, but I wouldn’t make a blanket statement that all are, or that all porn is “bad”. Warner even links the acceptance of porn in a society with its openness and freedom — not that that porn causes that openness, but that it is a sign of it. He briefly addresses the question of whether viewing porn is consistent with Zen practice, and does not really come out on one side or the other. I would agree with his assertion that obsession of any sort might have a negative effect on Zen practice.
…and porn stars
One of the better parts of this book is an interview with porn star Nina Hartley who, incidentally, was also raised in a Zen monastery. A perfect interview subject for a book about Buddhism and sexuality. It’s a longer version of his interview with her at SuicideGirls. Read that, if you’re interested, instead of reading my commentary here (but be aware that the site has sexual content before you go there). Or buy the book — Brad points out that he could use the money. I don’t have too much to say about the interview except that it was a good read – she leads I lifestyle I wouldn’t want to, but I admire her authenticity. She is exactly who she is, with no apologies or explanations.
…and the difficult stuff.
I appreciate that there is a chapter on abortion. I think no book on Buddhism and sex would be complete without one. One of the precepts is “no killing,” — abortion is definitely a form of killing, and yet I could never be anything but pro-choice. Having an abortion is an experience that
will stay with a woman through the rest of her life; a decision that few take lightly. I’m not so sure that Warner’s assertion that Christians are opposed to abortion because, it foils “God in his one and only chance to judge that soul,” is 100% correct for all Christians. Some Christians I’ve met believe that the soul of an unbaptized baby (which, for them, includes embryos and fetuses) will go to hell. Others oppose it on the grounds that it is taking a human life. Yet, I’d agree with Warner that the life that is taken is not yet a person. He gives a first-person account of an abortion here that’s both harrowing and touching. At the end, the woman talks about doing a Jizo ceremony with other women to honor this experience of loss; this was especially moving.
There’s too much more in this book to comment on everything here. I appreciate the part on the misuse of sex in Buddhist groups and the problem with student-teacher relationships 15. He also provides some counsel for those with a history of sexual abuse dealing with traumatic issues coming up during zazen, and muses on the need for hate as well as love. And, at the end of it all, he adds a section on how to do zazen. He does all this with his typical style and sense of humor. All in all, I’d give it a “thumbs up.” It’s worth a read.
Addendum
There are a couple of resources he mentions in this book that I haven’t read, but now might plan to:
- For those of you who don’t know who Warner is – and you probably do if you’re reading this –he’s a Punk-Rock Zen master who has written four books about Zen, keeps a blog at http://hardcorezen.blogspot.com , and used to write columns on the Suicide Girls (porn) website. ↩
- And used copious footnotes! ↩
- Especially teachers from any religion who claim their own Enlightenment®. This is one of the difficulties I have with trying to read/listen to Eckhart Tolle, who some people have recommended to me. Also see my post Puppy Metta if you want to read about some of my initial reactions to trying to do metta practice at a retreat. When you find yourself being irritated too much about something, it’s useful to look at what you, yourself do. For instance, I find myself criticizing people for being too critical. Warner touches on this just a bit in his book in an anecdote about a boss he hated. ↩
- Or stroking. Heh..heh…heh.. I said stroking! And I just used a Brad Warner style joke. This is an example of this type of thing, and the subject matter gives him ample opportunity to overdo. Eventually, you come to expect it, just like you expect Michael on The Office to blurt out his, “That’s what she said…” jokes. ↩
- Not a Buddhist one…so don’t look to me for any “body vows” photos or anything. My tattoo predates my Buddhism, though not my interest in it. ↩
- Uh, no offense Brad. I realize that you didn’t design the cover, but I want equal opportunity. ↩
- “the unstated, but nevertheless pervasive view that there are only two jobs that could possibly fit into the category of right livelihood. These are yoga instructor and therapist. This is nonsense, of course. “:) ↩
- According to Warner, laypeople were people who could get laid
↩ - p.46 ↩
- Warner uses the word queer a lot in this book. Like Warner, I had some discomfort with that word, and prefer “gay” or “lesbian.” As with anything else, when I have a reaction I need to examine it. I’m still not sure why, though…does it sound derogatory to me, or because all of us are queer — strange and odd — in one way or another? ↩
- Warner makes reference to a book called The Ethical Slut , which I haven’t read. Also, as I was writing this a new post on ElephantJournal.com about polyamory appeared.), but I agree with Warner that there is almost something instinctual about jealousy – which is different from the way we respond/react to that jealousy [8. p. 39 ↩
- And yes, I’m aware of what I just said – but here I mean emotional suffering ↩
- When asked, my husband says that he thinks that in a relationship where one person enjoys porn and the other person is hurt, angry or insecure about the porn, the one with a problem is the one having the strong feelings about it. I’m not sure. I think it also depends on way in which the porn viewer uses the porn. ↩
- In his book Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs, Chuck Klosterman states that, “The main thing the Internet has accomplished is the normalization of Amateur Pornography.” He also indirectly points out some of the ways in which porn can be degrading to women. ↩
- For more on this, you might want to check out the Sex and the Sangha posts at Smiling Buddha Cabaret ↩



